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Self-exploration is something that never gets old. Even after decades, you can still find completely new spots that excite you. Amazing stuff!
That said, the first times are always special. While I do not remember when exactly I started to “have fun with myself”, I do remember that I was a teenager back then. During those times, ordering things online was not nearly as discreet and simple as it is now.
As such, the only option for experimenting with sex toys was to go to a legitimate, old-school sex shop. And, needless to say, these spots were not welcoming toward teenagers.
As such, I had to rely on my hands to make me feel good and explore myself.
Women these days have it much better. There are numerous fantastic dildos for virgins available out there. And today, I will be writing about some of the best choices. Before we start looking at the specific products, allow me to answer some of the most common questions virgins have about dildos.
Why use a dildo as a virgin?
Mostly because a good dildo is realistic and can help you get more comfortable with the idea of penetration. And, for making your first time pleasurable, confidence and comfort are key.
Now, I also want to emphasize that you can have fun with a dildo even if you are not planning on popping your cherry anytime soon. This is all about you, and there should never be any pressure associated with using a sex toy.
What kind of dildos should a virgin choose?
Above all, a dildo should be made of completely body-safe materials. In addition, you should not go for dildos that are overpriced. Other than that, go for something that seems the best fit for your specific taste. I know that you are a virgin and couldn’t possibly know EXACTLY what you want, but some products will surely feel and seem more erotic and exciting than others. Just listen to your heart, your gut, and your p*ssy.
Are you still a virgin if you use a toy?
Using a sex toy does not mean that you will lose your virginity. While I do not have the statistics, it is safe to say that a lot of women and girls have used dildos, vibrators, and even sex machines before getting it on with a living and breathing partner.
Whew, looks like it is time to get started with our list. In our selection, you are bound to find a toy that suits your needs and tastes. So, have fun choosing…and even more importantly, have fun with your dildo!
These are the best dildos for virgins in 2022:
Best Overall – Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Suction Cup Dildo 5 Inch
Check price at Lovehoney.
This baby has 5 inches of length and 3 inches of girth. For modern dildos, this is pretty much as non-intimidating as it gets. And, non-intimidating is exactly what we want in a dildo for virgins.
Let this thing slowly roam around the outer area of your vagina. If it feels good and you feel as if you are ready for it, then slowly, very slowly let it slide in. It will not feel intrusive, even if you accidentally go for some penetrative action a little too quickly.
Now, this cutie wouldn’t be on our list of best dildos for beginners if there weren’t other perks as well. For one, for such a low price, this thing looks beautiful. Sleek, black, small…something you wouldn’t mind sliding into your purse.
Also, this is a suction cup dildo. You can attach it to a wall or to the floor and enjoy the action without holding it. Many women love riding a dildo and who knows, maybe you’ll love it as well.
Lastly, this thing is as cheap as bricks. It comes at just around $20 which is a bargain for a toy of this quality.
Most Realistic – Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo 6 Inch
Check price at Lovehoney
If you are planning on popping your cherry soon and want to know what to expect before getting it on, then this dildo is your best bet for knowing what to expect.
This thing is as realistic as it gets. First off, the size – with 5 inches in length and 5 inches in girth, this dildo will probably get you close to the penis you will take.
In addition, this dildo feels very lifelike with its veins, the shaft, and the detailed head. It is also a very flexible model, which means that you will have no trouble finding exactly the spots you want to find.
Due to the realism, it is precisely the kind of toy that cam girls often use for giving fake blowjobs and enticing their viewers. If you feel like it, you can do the same. It feels hot, and no one says you will have to start giving out real blowjobs just because you love putting your mouth and tongue on a dildo. In my experience, sucking off a dildo is a solid choice for foreplay and will get you hot very quickly, even if you have never had a single penetrative experience before.
In a nutshell – if you want something super realistic, cheap, and effective, then this is your dildo right here.
Best Glass Dildo – Lovehoney Realistic Textured Sensual Glass Dildo with Balls
Check price at Lovehoney
Next up, we are looking at some of my favorite glass dildos.
Glass for a virgin? Seems like a strange idea and something tells me that not many would recommend glass dildos for beginners.
Let me tell you though – glass dildos are a very, very good choice for virgins.
First off, just look at how beautiful this glass dildo from Lovehoney looks. It is simply gorgeous and you would find it hard to believe that something like this would cost less than $50.
When it comes to glass dildos, you will want to make use of something called temperature play. Allow me to explain – glass guides temperature exceptionally well. Just heat this thing up slightly and feel the warmth as it slowly enters you with its well-crafted curves and beautiful textures. Thank me later!
I know that penetrating yourself with glass may seem intimidating at first. But trust me when I say that the reality is quite the opposite. Having something warm and stiff enter you is one of the best ways of getting to know the wonderful world of dildos.
And again, just look at how beautiful this toy is!
Best Dildo Set – Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo
Check price at Lovehoney
As mentioned, we continue on a path of glass dildos.
This time, we are looking at a set of two. The set comes with two dildos with different textures – one of them with prominent beads and the other has prominent sets of nubs running over it.
The different textures are perfect for women who do not yet know exactly what they want and like, such as virgins.
Personally, I love the white dildo just a tad bit more. I love it for G-spot stimulation as it seems to hit exactly the spots I want it to hit.
Now, if G-spot stimulation seems a tad bit intimidating and intense, don’t fret! The toy will feel just as awesome if you go in very slowly and just instinctually see where your body wants it to go.
Lovehoney suggests using the two toys simultaneously for temperature play. Not a bad idea at all. Warm one of the toys up in warm water while the other sits in an ice bath. Doing so will give you a great first experience with temperatures…and trust me, you are in for a ride!
Finally, the set includes two cute storage pouches. Not an important detail per se, but a sweet touch nevertheless.
Best Black Dildo – Colours Realistic 5 inch Silicone Dildo
Check price at Betty’s Toy Box
Let’s move on with one of the best black dildos on the market. This beginner-friendly dildo from NS Novelties is a superstar. Frankly, I would advise this dildo to everyone, regardless of whether they are virgins or not. So, what makes this one special?
For one, I love how veiny and seemingly “rugged” this thing looks. From the shaft to the balls, everything here looks rough and powerful. That is until you touch it!
The dildo is made of body-safe silicone that feels almost velvety to the touch. Imagine running your fingers over the smoothness of this phallic wonder…gosh, I am getting hot just thinking about it.
Let’s also talk size. This NS Novelties toy is 7 inches in length and 4.8 inches in girth. So, yeah, it is a bit meatier than some other toys on this list. Now, I would still easily recommend it to a virgin. Why? Because of the aforementioned material and the overall eroticism that this dildo radiates.
If you are a virgin, yet feel as if you have a dragon inside you just waiting to be awakened, then this one would be a very good idea.
Best Squirting Dildo – Big Shot Silicone Vibrating Squirting Dildo
Check price at Betty’s Toy Box
I deliberately put this list together so that we will start with the most vanilla dildos and gradually move on to more daring stuff.
This dildo from Evolved Novelties is a squirting dildo. Yup, you heard it right – it is a dildo that will mimic a c*mshot.
Simply fill the dildo with fake semen (spunk lube can be added to the order) via the bottom and you are good to go.
The dildo can be operated with two-button controls. One button is for the c*umshot and the other is for operating the vibrations of the dildo. Speaking of vibrations – there are a total of 10 vibrating speeds on this babe. So, if you are a beginner, feel free to just start slow and work your way up if you feel like it.
Now, while this dildo is a bit more “extreme” than others on this list, I still wouldn’t hesitate to recommend it to beginners. For one, I love that there are a lot of vibration modes to choose from. Second, the squirting aspect is not just a novelty. Many virgins love female-friendly porn and have dreamt of getting f*cked and getting c*m all over their bodies.
Best for Dual Stimulation – Lovehoney Triple Tickler
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Lovehoney Triple Tickler is a helluva toy. Despite being a cheapie, this thing can fill the roles of a clitoral vibrator, a dildo, and a G-spot stimulator…allow me to explain.
For a beginner, this thing may seem like a run-of-the-mill dildo. Nothing that spectacular. However, when you take a detailed look at it, you will notice little ear-like details on the bottom of the toy.
Well, these little ears will stimulate your clit while the other parts of the toy have fun inside you.
This dildo is also designed to hit your G-spot when you play with yourself. So, if you go all-in and use a fast and intense vibration pattern, then better be prepared for quite the ride!
Don’t worry, I did not forget that we are talking about virgins here. If this is your very first toy, then just switch on a lower setting and slowly rub the toy over the outer parts of your vagina. Slowly become friends with it. You can even use the toy without having it enter you. Just use the vibration and the clit stimulation bottom. And, once you are more comfortable with the toy, you will always have the option of finding out just how intense this dildo can be.
With this one, there is one drawback – it is not very quiet. Luckily, it is a completely waterproof toy and you can work around the noise by just using it under a shower or, even better, in a bath.
Looks like we have reached the end of the line. I think I did a good job and managed to cover all the bases – from which dildos virgins should use, why they should use them, and how they should use them.
I sincerely hope I managed to be helpful to you. And, more importantly, I hope that you will discover just how great sex toys can be and that your experimentation will help you live a healthy, open, and awesome sex life in the future.