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Let’s get one thing out of the way – you can be straight as an arrow and still enjoy dildos. Since you are at a sex toy blog, this is probably not news to you.
However, there still may be a slight tinkling in your head that judges you for wanting to experiment with getting things up your rear.
Does it mean you are curious about other orientations out there? Does it mean that you won’t enjoy “regular” sex anymore?
The truth is this – enjoying a good dildo doesn’t have to “mean” anything. For some folks (me included), prostate stimulation and anal play simply feel very good. I love that pressured feeling I get from prostate stimulation, I love how it feels more “hands-off” than regular masturbation, and I love how having a dildo inside me makes my penis “leak”.
Oh and for the gooners out there – backdoor play can unlock a whole new level of sexual insanity for you!
Long story short – dildos are not only for vulva-owners.
How about which ones to go for? Well, here’s where we come to help.
In this list, find reviews of some of the best prostate stimulation dildos out there. We tried to keep the selection as concise as possible – all to make sure that our list will offer genuine value without being overloaded with fluff.
So, here goes.
These are the best prostate dildos currently available:
• Our Top Pick – “nJoy Pure Wand”
• Best Realistic Dildo – “Vixen Mustang”
• Best For Grinding – “The Peak from Mr. Hankey’s”
• Best For Experienced Users – “Captain’s Hook from Mr. Hankey’s”
• Best For Clenching Stimulation – “Aneros Helix Syn”
• Best For Spinning Prostate Stimulation – “nJoy Disco”
Our Top Pick – “nJoy Pure Wand”
Measurements: About 8 inches end-to-end (10 to 11.5 inches along the curve) small tip is about 1 inch diameter and the large tip is 1.5 inches diameter. The weight is considerable at 1.51 lbs (680 g).
nJoy’s Pure Wand is a bit of a cult legend prostate toy at this point. This thing has gotten a lot of love from online toy communities and Reddit over the years.
What makes this one so special? I mean, at a glance, there’s really nothing there to justify the somewhat intense cost. It is just a C-shaped metal wand with bulbs on both ends.
Looks cool, sure, but over $100 for something like this?
The doubts will immediately disappear once you start to play with it. The first thing you’ll notice here is how the sheer weight of the wand will react to the body.
Lube it up, slide it in, and you’ll see what I’m talking about. You won’t even have to do all that much to get an experience from the nJoy wand – a slight grinding motion will be enough to start the build-up to an orgasm.
Keep in mind that nJoy wand is not completely hands-free though. You’ll need that slight grind to get this one to click. When you feel a slight pressure in your prostate that radiates all the way to the tip of your penis…that’s when you know you are on the right track.
In addition to that beautiful design, the nJoy wand has another trick up its sleeve – it is the best prostate toy for temperature play. Cool down the wand as much as possible and let it enter. It will be a shocking, even potentially painful experience at first.
When you wait a while though and let it slowly heat up inside your body. Whew, adds a completely new layer to the experience.
All in all – still the best prostate wand currently out there.
Best Realistic Dildo – “Vixen Mustang”
Measurements: Insertable length of 6.25 to 6.5 inches, diameter of 1.6 inches (girth around 5 inches at widest)
Vixen Mustang has long been one of my wife’s favorite realistic dildos.
And the realism of Vixen Mustang really is on point – you have the veins, the raised head, and the skin feels soft and lifelike.
This is a dual-density dildo which means that you have that aforementioned soft skin on the outside with a firm, stiff core. Add to this the beautiful little curve on that penis and you’ll have something that feels pretty damn close to the real thing when it hits you.
Why use Vixen Mustang for prostate stimulation though? It’s that same curve I already mentioned. It somehow gets the angle just right. It’s also one of the few prostate dildos that hits the best during classic in-and-out penetration.
Most of the stuff here is best served slowly. Just by laying down and enjoying that filled-up, pressured feeling.
The Mustang though – this one wants you to engage.
Now, I am not that into pegging myself, but Vixen Mustang would probably be the ideal pegging dildo if you find a willing partner.
As I said, getting penetrated by it feels amazing, Even on faster thrusts.
Particularly while standing up. It just makes that curve hit just right.
If you do end up getting the Vixen then I highly suggest making use of the suction cup on it. Attach it to a wall and ride away.
Perhaps that combo of standing + mid-to-fast penetration will work just as well as it did for me.
Best For Grinding – “The Peak from Mr. Hankey’s”
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Measurements: Lots of different choices available, varies by choice
The Peak is a newer dildo from the one and only Mr. Hankey’s, an almost legendary American company that specializes in hyperlarge dildos, horse dildos, and even alien dildos.
The dildo is designed precisely for prostate stimulation.
How does it deliver this? With a realistic bulbous head, beautifully intense veins, and a curve created to target the P-Spot precisely. As already mentioned below, you have a variety of customization options available here in terms of size.
From something that a newbie can manage all the way to stuff that will take your stretching limits to the very extreme. Not only that, but you also get to choose a firmness level suitable to you.
In size, the choice is completely up to you. As for the firmness – my suggestion is to go for something that lands just in the middle of the pack. Slight softness seems to work the best with The Peak.
Why? Because it works with the overall design the best. The head feels as if it hooks your prostate every time you grind on it.
Lay down and give it a slow grinding motion and you’ll immediately see what I’m talking about.
Best For Experienced Users – “Captain’s Hook from Mr. Hankey’s”
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Measurements: various sizes and firmness levels
In many ways, Captain’s Hook is a very similar toy to the previous prostate dildo we covered, The Peak.
There’s a key difference here though. The curve is even more pronounced and will feel even more “sharp” when compared to Peak. To me, it is even a bit too harsh. The P-Spot feels targeted and that specific type of pleasure is there…but it’s just too…stabby?
That said, it is still a wonderful choice for prostate play exploration. For instance, I can see that specific sharp hit working super well in various BDSM scenarios where the line between pain and pleasure is deliberately thin.
For example, imagine getting hit with Captain’s Hook from some very intense Dominatrix. Whew!
Oh, and not that it really matters, but I absolutely adore the name of this dildo. Captain’s Hook sounds pretty much exactly how it feels taking this.
All in all – one of the most extreme dildos in this list thus far. If you are getting your very first prostate dildo then I wouldn’t start here. Simply put – your butt is not ready for something like this. Even on the smallest sizes.
Best For Clenching Stimulation – “Aneros Helix Syn”
Measurements: insertable length of 3.6 inches, head width of 0.92 inches, mid-ridge width of 0.85 inches
It can feel like cheating to include an Aneros toy in here because it does not look like a dildo per se.
However, we simply can’t ignore Aneros when it comes to prostate play.
They have a bit of a reputation for offering next to nothing at first, but when it eventually clicks, it feels completely different to everything else.
This one is best served as something that you just take in, hold, and use pelvic contractions to get the results. A completely hands-free experience where slow breathing and focus are key to making it work. An almost meditative experience.
Speaking of meditative experiences – let me be a bit too honest and share one of my favorite toy experiences of all-time. I was completely relaxed in a hot sauna with the Helix Syn inside me.
I was standing up and my wife treated me to a wonderful blowjob. Just as I came in her mouth, I also clenched my butt hard with the Helix Syn inside.
And, whew, let me tell you – this orgasm was a sensory overload in the best way possible!
Best For Spinning Prostate Stimulation – “nJoy Disco”
Measurements: the circumference increases from 3.7 to 6.1 inches, 5.9 inches of insertable length
This is the wildest one on this list by far. And once again, it is a nJoy.
An nJoy that is much less well-known than the nJoy Plugs and the already mentioned nJoy wand.
The Disco is a fully stainless steel dildo that has ripples of various sizes on it. These ripples increase in size all the way to 6.1 inches in circumference. Nothing ridiculously crazy, but still considerable.
The main treat here is HOW the ripples are placed on it – they are in a sort of a strange cluster. And this cluster gives a pretty alien-like energy to this thing feels inside you…but everything is deliberate here.
Take it in how deep you want to take it…and then just spin it slowly using the handle on the bottom.
Sometimes you feel the ripples inside you radiate to your penis, sometimes you feel them hitting the prostate directly. Again, a sort of a sensory experience in the best way possible.
PS: This thing looks like an art piece. By far the most aesthetically pleasing toy on this list.
Prostate stimulation is not something that will click immediately for everyone. In fact, the internet is flooded with stories from men who got an expensive toy, had their first sessions, and ended up being completely disappointed.
This doesn’t mean that you have to give up.
In fact, it can take deliberate “asshole conditioning” and practice to get there. Try different angles, try approaching with different libido levels, and try different breathing techniques.
Also, don’t be afraid to reach out in respective online communities and ask for advice.
And yes, there are folks out there for whom prostate stimulation simply isn’t a thing. And that’s completely fine too.
So, what can I say?
Good luck and have fun!
