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Most men learn to masturbate somewhere in middle school. The first times are usually a bit strange, but after a few great sessions, we usually develop masturbation habits that stay with us into adulthood.
It is safe to say that most men never even consider changing up their habits. I mean, it works and feels good. Why change things up?
Well, you masturbate for pleasure. And, switching things up once in a while can bring even more pleasure to the table.
Another great benefit of learning how to jerk off in new ways is that it can improve your stamina. Premature ejaculation affects 20-30% of men at some point in their lives.
One of the cheapest, fastest, and most effective ways of curing PE is as simple as switching up how you masturbate.
But, which techniques are the most pleasurable and effective? Great question!
To help our readers, I decided to write an article on my personal favorite masturbation techniques. Some of them require a bit of patience, but all of them will pay off with an awesome orgasm.
I think it is about time we get to the good stuff. These are some of the best masturbation methods, habits, and tips all men should try at least once in their lives:
• Change your regular masturbation positions
• Use a Fleshlight or a Fleshjack
The frenulum tickle
The frenulum is a medical term for the small line that connects the head of your penis to your foreskin.
I will not be posting a picture of a c*ck here, but I think that the description is enough for all men to understand what I am talking about.
Not many men associate this area with sexual pleasure. This is partly what makes this advanced masturbation technique so special. I also love that technique because it acquires no lube, you can go in entirely dry. In fact, this is a masturbation technique that I prefer to practice without lube.
To start off, get erect. Preferably by fantasizing. I would advise you not to watch porn because this technique is quite far from a regular, intense jerk-off session. Above all, this masturbation technique is about relaxation and patience. Of course, staying grounded and having patience will also pay off with a mighty orgasm.
Once you have a solid erection, take your penis between two fingers with one hand. Keep it upward and steady. Like a mighty skyscraper!
Now, slowly start massaging your frenulum. Most men (myself included) prefer a circular motion, but you can roam around just as you like. Oh, and for the uncircumcised guys out there – just massage the frenulum through the foreskin. Pleasure-wise, there is no difference between whether you are circumcised or not.
Most men report not feeling anything at all for the first 10 minutes. Do not give up and resist the temptation to go for your tried-and-true masturbation technique.
Relax and keep going. After about ten minutes, you will probably start to feel a little tingle that only grows stronger with each passing minute. Stay with this feeling and keep massaging your frenulum. And, again, resist the temptation to fully go for it use your regular methods. This will be harder the more pleasurable the feeling gets, but it is well worth it.
Most men report reaching orgasm in about 20 minutes. However, this number depends entirely on the person.
The orgasm itself will be different. It is not like your typical, quick male orgasm. Here, the pleasure comes in small, warm waves. By the way, the ejaculation itself will be different too. Your sperm will not burst, instead, you can expect your ejaculate to slowly flow out as you orgasm.
Since this is a masturbation method that acquires a lot of patience, it is also one of my top recommendations for men looking to improve their stamina in the bedroom.
Try the frenulum massage out, you will not regret it.
Change your regular masturbation positions
While this is not a masturbation technique per se, this method is still more than relevant to our article.
It is safe to say that most men masturbate while sitting down and looking at their phones. Another common way is in bed right before falling to sleep or right after waking. This is all fine and dandy, but try switching things up once in a while.
If you masturbate while sitting, try jerking off while you stand. As a bonus, you will probably be impressed by how far you can shoot your load.
If you like masturbating in bed, you can still switch things up. Try lying on your back if you have never masturbated in this position.
Here, the possibilities are virtually endless. And, from my own experience, positions do matter. All the orgasms are a bit different.
Balls, balls, balls!
Every man who knows a thing or two about a good handjob or a blowjob will tell you about the importance of balls. A light squeeze, a flick of a tongue, a quick grab…all of these details can heighten your sexual pleasure if the partner knows his or her stuff.
Surprisingly, we rarely pay attention to our balls as we masturbate. Time to change that! Play with your balls with one hand, use your favorite masturbation method with the other hand. An awesome orgasm is nearly guaranteed.
Want a concrete suggestion? Pull down your balls right before you come. You can do this rhythmically by following the pattern of your strokes. Somehow, this trick always seems to heighten both the orgasm and the volume of the ejaculate.
Use a Fleshlight or a Fleshjack
I deliberately narrowed down the choices because male masturbators are a massive subject that would take pages to talk about. Fleshlights are the most well-known male masturbators for a reason – they are not expensive and, most importantly, they work!
Using a Fleshlight is not a masturbation technique per se. Instead, a Fleshlight will allow you to mimic intercourse.
Fleshlights come in a variety of different textures, so you are going to have to do a bit of research before you commit to buying one. For a quick guide, feel free to check out our tier list of 27 Fleshlight Girls. This post features quick reviews and rankings of some of the most popular Fleshlight products.
The idea behind the Fleshjack is similar with one exception – these toys are the molds of male anal orifices. Fleshjacks are one of the go-to toys among gay and bi men.Again, we have covered these toys in-depth in one of our guides on the best Fleshjack sleeves currently available.
The rosy palm
This masturbation technique is a bit more advanced. Again, you have a method that takes a lot of patience and dedication. The rewards are more than worth it though – an orgasm from the rosy palm is quite powerful and different.
To get the best results, you will want to prepare for the rosy palm. Do not masturbate or have sex for at least a week before trying this masturbation technique. This will ensure that your member is super sensitive to touch, which is one of the keys to the success of this method.
To get started, get fully erect and hold your penis with one hand. You will then slowly rub your penis against an open hand. Some men prefer to lubricate the hand that is not holding the penis, but I have gotten even better results without any lube. It somehow seems even more intense without any lube at all. In the end, it comes down to your personal preference.
Now, I want to emphasize again that this masturbation technique takes time. For the first minutes, you will probably not feel a thing. However, if you listen to your body and keep going, you will feel the tension slowly build up. And, it will feel all the more awesome once you orgasm.
The orgasm here is similar to the one you get with a frenulum massage – it will come in waves and last a bit longer than a regular male orgasm.
Edging
Edging is another topic that I could easily talk about for hours. For now, let’s keep it short.
Edging is a method where you masturbate until you are super close to orgasm…and then stop. Sounds simple? Well, I challenge you to try edging yourself after refraining from an orgasm for weeks…not so easy now, is it?
There are 2 main benefits to experimenting with edging yourself – you will improve your stamina and the eventual orgasm will be an almost spiritual experience.
When it comes to orgasm, there is a simple correlation here – the longer you edge yourself, the better the eventual results.
There is so much you can do with this method. There are times when I have even made it a little game – I try to see how many times I can stop before eventually getting myself to climax.
Use your non-dominant hand
Again, we have something that feels way more exciting than it sounds. If you are a leftie, use your right hand to masturbate. If you are right-handed, use your left hand for masturbation.
At first, it might be confusing and frustrating. Your hand will also tire hella fast. If you have never experimented with switching up your masturbation habits, beating off with your non-dominant hand will be a considerable challenge. Especially if you are very aroused. You want to get there, but you just can’t!
A lot of scientists say that using your non-dominant hand can make you smarter. Well, using your non-dominant hand for masturbating can make you hornier and your orgasms better.
Prostate play
I know, I know. Most men cringe at the idea of anything going near their anus. However, when you are a true connoisseur of pleasure, you need to stay open to everything. Yes, this includes prostate play as well. I think all men should experiment with the P-spot at least once in their lives.
The P-spot is an internal nugget of pleasure that sits between your penis, bladder, and anus.
Start by getting comfortable with the idea of something going inside you. Use plenty of lube and slowly slide your finger in and out. It is a given that your nails must be well-trimmed and clean before trying prostate play.
Once you are inside, slowly locate the P-spot and massage it in circular motions. You can also try an up-and-down motion if that seems more pleasurable.
Now, I suggest starting off with your fingers just to see how the sensation feels to you. Be gentle, slow, relax, and breathe as you stimulate your prostate. You might also feel the urge to start playing with your penis as you stimulate yourself via the prostate.
This is a good sign. It means that this kind of stimulation does excite you.
Once you are comfortable with massaging your prostate with your fingers, I suggest eventually investing in a male vibrator. From my experience, a toy designed for prostate play is much better than your hands. That said, you do not want to invest in a toy if you are unsure whether this kind of stimulation is something that you enjoy.
The full VR experience
These days, VR porn is…awesome. In fact, the joys of VR adult content can be so great that I wouldn’t advise it for men who are yet to have real intercourse. This stuff can be so immersive that one would find it hard to get motivated for meeting real women.
That said, if you know your sex, treat yourself with a VR masturbation session once in a while.
Go all in – make sure you are all alone and spend some time picking a scene with actresses you love. To make things even more insane, hook up a VR-compatible male masturbator.
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If you want to add a toy to the mix, go for the LELO F1S V2. This bad boy is currently the best VR-compatible blowjob machine on the market.
All things considered, VR porn is something that all men should try out. Make sure to put in the time to find a scene that you love and go all in. You will be in for a treat.
There are many, many more ways to masturbate but these 9 are by far my favorite ideas. They also have one thing in common – they are relatively easy to try. Nothing too spiritual, intense, or kinky is included.
In fact, you can try most of them out tonight or even right now if you feel…erm, inspiration coming on.
I hope that you will have as much fun as I did experimenting with these methods.
