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The sensation of fingering or getting fingered is a special one. For many of us, it is associated with our first sexual experiences…and well, let’s be honest here – it can be quite an orgasmic ride. Especially if done by someone who truly knows their craft.
It is no wonder, then, that many seek out sex toys that can replicate this unique sensation.
Perhaps even improve on it slightly?
The Lovense Flexer, the vibrator we are reviewing today, promises to do just that.
It is a wearable panty vibrator similar to the Lovense Ferri (a Lovense panty vibrator focused on clit stimulation) but with a key difference of being G-spot focused.
Look, G-spot toys have always been popular – rabbit vibrators are one of the most popular toy categories out there and the LELO Ida Wave is one of my personal favorites.
As such, I just had to give the Lovense Flexer a try and see how it compares to the alternatives.
So, how about diving right in?
In this Lovense Flexer review, find:
• An Introduction – What is Lovense?
• First Impressions of the Lovense Flexer
• My Personal Review & Ranking – How Does the Lovense Flexer Feel?
• Where to Find the Best Price for Lovense Flexer & is it Worth it?
An Introduction – What is Lovense?
Before I introduce the Flexer, allow me to talk about the brand Lovense in general for a bit.
Lovense is currently the most popular sex toy brand for long-distance sex toys.
Both the Lovense vibrators for women and Lovense toys for men can be controlled via a Lovense app.
App-controlled sex toys are nothing particularly new these days, but what makes Lovense special is the long-distance control. None of their toys have geographic boundaries when it comes to using them. If your partner (or a random stranger, wink-wink!) has a code, they can use the app to control you even if they happen to be thousands of miles away from you and your sweet Lovense toy.
You can let your imagination run wild with ideas on how this sort of solution can work in your favor.
What is certain here is this – people like the long-distance aspect of Lovense. A lot.
The solid Bluetooth connectivity has also made Lovense one of the best toy brands for adult streamers which is why some of their vibrators contain features like tip-activation.
Money for pleasure? Mmmmm.
Now that you have an idea of what kind of brand Lovense is, let’s get a bit more specific and meet the hero of today’s review, the Flexer itself.
First Impressions of the Lovense Flexer
In the next part of this article, I will list everything you can expect to find in your Lovense Flexer order. For now, let me quickly give you an overview of my first impressions of this vibe.
At a glance, the Flexer is not anything noteworthy. It looks beautiful in its bright, screaming pink color, but the design itself is nothing completely new to me.
It features a relatively thick, bulb-like tail for the G-spot. This part of the Flexer will go inside you and deliver the fingering “come hither” motion that is the main selling point of this toy.
The flat part of the toy works as a clit vibrator and delivers the goods to the clit while also keeping the toy firmly in place in case you want to wear it out in public and use it as a panty vibrator.
I did not go for the first ride just yet, but I decided to still turn the thing on. Just to see what the vibrations feel like in the hand. You see, every vibrator has its distinct type of vibration. At least this is what I feel.
I generally prefer super rumbly and “deep” vibrations often found in high-quality wand vibrators.
The Flexer seems more of a buzzy type of vibrator at first. The type of vibration that “tickles” you into orgasm by stimulating a pleasurable body part directly instead of going for that all-over-the-body type of stimulation that something like the Domi 2 wand offers.
The movements of the Flexer caught my interest immediately though. The way the clit and the G-spot parts move in unison does look exactly like the “come hither” motion. And, seeing that the Flexer is bigger than two average human fingers…well, I can’t wait to see how something like this works inside me.
I got excited. And, not gonna lie, kind of horny!
Let’s get the entire thing out of the box first though and see what exactly came with the order.
What’s in the Box?
First of all – if you are worried about discretion then don’t be. The Lovense Flexer (and all Lovense toys for that matter) comes in a boring, discreet box that does not have any hints as to what’s inside.
Once you unwrap, you will find a cute little white box with the goodies. Here’s what’s included in the box of Lovense Flexer:
- The Lovense Flexer Bluetooth G-spot vibrator – The key player. The diva. The main man. Ok, ok – you got the point. I already described the toy in detail and I will not stop here for too long. Keep reading for some of my personal experiences with the toy and for my overall verdict.
- USB Charging cable – This one’s for charging your Lovense Flexer. Captain Obvious? Sure bet.
- User manual – I am generally not a keeper of user manuals and this was not an exception. I like to do some self-exploration and follow my body. It is more interesting that way. Plus, I already know my way around the Lovense toys. If this was my first toy of this type though – I would keep the manual. Just in case.
- A small storage bag – For if you want to keep your toy away from prying eyes.
In a nutshell, the Lovense Flexer order features the essentials only. Some high-end sex toy companies also include a few additional goodies. For example, LELO vibrators often come with a small package of lube.
Details like that are cute, but not all that necessary.
For now, I figure it is time to move on to some more interesting things. Time to get more intimate and take a look at my personal experiences with the Lovense Flexer.
My Personal Review & Ranking – How Does the Lovense Flexer Feel?
The Bedbible review of Lovense Flexer highlighted the rigid material of the toy in their review. This is the first thing I noticed too – the Flexer feels, for a lack of better word, tough in my hand.
This is not a bad thing though as I have often found some of the more softer feeling toys to somehow not feel quite as direct and intense as I would like them to be. Some of the more softer materials simply don’t transfer the vibrations that well.
Lovense Flexer is a panty vibrator that can be worn in public. However, I wanted my first ride with this toy to be in the confines of my home.
So, let’s turn on this bad boy and see what we are dealing with.
Lovense Flexer Without Vibration – The Come-hither Motion in Action
So, how does it feel?
The come-hither motion that this thing is built on is real. Somewhat surprising seeing as the Lovense Flexer does not look like a pair of fingers.
No, it is not an exact 50-50, but the sensation does come very, very close to what a skilled human hand can do down there. Immediate bonus points here!
Another thing – this is a very intuitive toy. G-spot stimulation is something that a lot of vulva owners struggle with simply because this precious spot can not be all that easy to “get” from the right angle. With the Lovense Flexer though – just let it enter you and voila!
I am going to be honest with you – I am not the biggest fan of the classic come-hither fingering motion. Sure, it feels good, but I have too many bad memories from youngsters who DID NOT know what they are doing. They were nice boys and meant their best, but the rocket-fast thing that most younger dudes went for…well, it just didn’t do it for me.
The Flexer without the vibration feels good, but it reminds me of this weird sensation slightly too much. I bet that a lot of ladies like that sort of thing though.
For me personally, the real magic of Lovense Flexer started once I switched on the vibration.
The Fingering + Vibration Combo of Lovense Flexer
This is the part where I start to understand the appeal of the Lovense Flexer. You see, the combination of the body-friendly design, the rigidity of the toy, and those direct vibrations…it just does it for me.
The fingering motion takes a completely different meaning once you find a vibration setting you love. On lower speeds, I tend to go for some nipple play with this one. I let the Flexer stay inside me and ride away while I slowly caress my nipples. If I am in the mood, it does not take me long to reach heaven.
Since this is a Lovense toy, the vibration settings deserve some extra attention too. The patterns you can create here are unlimited. Tinkering around with the app makes it intuitive and simple to adjust the individual parts of the Flexer.
My serving suggestion here is this – turn on the vibration and just start messing around with it. Listen to your body and find a type of setting and speed that you enjoy. This can take a while, but it is worth it.
Also – G-spot stimulation can feel, for a lack of better word, weird. Especially those new to this. A sort of pressuring type of feeling that you slowly but surely warm up to. The orgasms also feel pretty different. In a good way.
So, my personal verdict? Well, I came. And it was a different type of orgasm. Add to this the nearly unlimited number of different patterns…yeah, worth it!
The Pros of Lovense Flexer
Let’s do a quick rundown of the main advantages associated with the Flexer.
The fingering sensation is done very well here
It seems that this is the main selling point of Lovense Flexer. Not many sex toys come close to offering the sensation of a good set of fingers.
The long-distance aspect
This is an advantage we can associate with all Lovense toys. Have a special someone from another country and you are not able to get your kinky on? No problem. The Flexer can be operated from another continent if necessary.
The three individual motors
This adds a lot of variety to the mix. If your first impressions of the toy are disappointing then just tinker with the settings a bit. Let only the tail of the toy do the moving. Alternatively, play with the various speeds and patterns. Hell, you can even let the Flexer vibrate to the rhythm of music. Yes, this stuff can be connected to various streaming services. The bottom line here is this – this is not a “pump and dump” type of vibrator that you will use once and throw away.
The intensity
This one firmly sits on the more intense side of things. Sure, the milder settings will be suitable for those who prefer soft stimulation, but if you go full-on with it…then, yeah. You get the drill. Lots of vulva owners prefer their vibrators to be as strong as possible. For such folks, the Flexer does the job nicely.
A hands-free experience
Whether you use it as a panty vibe or just chill out while the toy is inside you, the hands-free aspect of Flexer is cool. This allows you to touch other erogenous zones of your body while buzzing away. You can even host adult streams if you are into that kind of thing.
Great for exploring G-Spot play
As already mentioned, “unlocking” G-spot stimulation can be tricky at times. Due to this, you need something with a body-friendly, foolproof design that also feels intuitive to all your movements. The Lovense Flexer fits the bill.
The Cons of Lovense Flexer
Well, no sex toy is perfect. And, despite my love for the overall experience offered by Lovense Flexer, this toy is not for everyone.
Here are some of the disadvantages of Lovense Flexer:
The noise level
Compared to some other Lovense toys, the Flexer is a bit louder. Considering that it is meant for public wear too, this could be a disadvantage for some folks. It is not a loud toy and you will get away with wearing it in public if there is a lot of background noise present, but yeah…the noise is there.
Similarly, the noise is something you will have to consider when you are sharing a space with roommates…or even worse, your parents. Just kidding! Roommates and parents are cool and all, but something tells me that you will not want them hearing you get off with the Lovense Flexer.
G-spot stimulation is not for everyone
As I mentioned, there’s loads of super pleasurable stuff you can do with this toy. However, G-spot stimulation is not for everyone. Even if you do everything right, there is still a chance that your body will simply not enjoy the sensation. And this is completely fine.
Some vulva-owners have described G-spot stimulation as an annoying, pressuring type of a feeling.
Where to Find the Best Price for Lovense Flexer & is it Worth it?
You will find the best price for Lovense Flexer here, on the official site of Lovense.
Is it worth it though? To me, the uniqueness and the versatility of the toy alone make it worth a buy.
And, if you already love G-spot stimulation and/or the fingering sensation or dual stimulation then this one is pretty much bound to be a hit for you.
The rigid feel of the toy along with the buzzy vibrations do their job very well and the overall experience can lead to a pretty intense orgasm in the right circumstances.
Add to that the long-distance capabilities of Lovense and the large number of different speeds and patterns…yeah, this is a good one!
With that, I will leave you lovely folks to ponder the wonders of the G-spot. I had a lot of fun testing and reviewing this toy.
Hopefully, you will have as much fun using it!
Good night!
