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Sex toys and virgins are always a bit of a controversial subject. I mean, using a sex toy if you have never even had sex? Why?
Well, here are two key reasons – it will help you become more confident with your sexuality and it will also help you to learn what your body likes and what it does not like.
Sure, you could also use your hand for this sort of exploration and I would actually recommend you to start with your hand.
However, there comes a point where many of you fine people will want to see what else is out there to try BEFORE losing the big V.
And, these days, there are a lot of great sex toys out there. For all kinds of tastes and experience levels. This includes virgins.
Which toys though?
Well, this is where this article comes in. I decided to put together a quick list of the best sex toys for virgins. Here, you will find quick reviews of the toys that I would readily recommend to all the explorers out there.
Before we proceed to the good stuff, allow me to explain how I chose the best sex toys for virgins:
- The pricing – When preparing this list, I did not necessarily go for the cheapest toys. That said, everything on here is worth the money. These days, there are a lot of overpriced toys out there. Try to avoid these if possible!
- Body-safety – Every toy listed here is completely safe-to-use. Body-safety is an extremely important aspect when it comes to choosing sex toys because this market is quite unregulated. You will have to do your own research and be smart in order to avoid buying a toy that may cause adverse reactions.
- The discretion – As a virgin, you will probably want your toy to be discreet. You do not want to scare yourself with super big, hulking vibrators. Instead – go for toys that are beautiful, look inviting, and are also as quiet as possible.
So, how about it? Time to get to the good stuff? Yes! These are the best sex toys for virgins in 2024:
Best Wand Vibrator – “Lovense Domi 2“
Get this if: you want a versatile sex toy that is intense yet gentle
Look, let’s just get this out of the way – the Domi 2 wand vibrator is one of my favorite sex toys of all time. As such, I just HAD to include it in our list of best sex toys for virgins. Now, keep in mind that I never suggest anything randomly – the fact that the Domi 2 is a personal favorite of mine does not mean that it is here just because of this fact.
What makes the Domi 2 so virgin-friendly is just how body-friendly it is. That curved shape just plays so well with the female anatomy and you will easily be able to stimulate all of the key spots. Even if you do not know where your key spots are!
In addition to great design, there is the vibration. The sensations offered by the Domi 2 are deep and rumbly. When it hits right, you feel as if the vibration is throbbing through your entire body in a VERY good way.
Of course, when talking about Lovense toys, we will also have to mention the Bluetooth connectivity. Nearly all Lovense vibrators are known as some of the best sex toys for cam girls. Why? Because they can be controlled via an app from anywhere around the world. This gives some amazing opportunities for streamers.
All in all, still the queen of wand vibrators and a worthy first sex toy for anyone who wants to start exploring this world.
Best Clit Toy – “The Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator from Lovehoney“
Get this if: you want an affordable, viral sex toy that has taken TikTok by storm
I thought that the sex toy scene could not surprise me anymore, but when a toy became viral on TikTok a year or two back, I was truly surprised. I am talking about the one and only rose clitoral vibrator of course – this affordable clit vibe went popular on social media and still continues to sell super well.
So, what is this phenomenon all about? Well, there are plenty of reasons – for one, just look at how beautiful it looks. Completely non-kinky and also very beginner-friendly due to this. This is the type of stuff that you can easily keep away from prying eyes due to how unassuming it looks.
Of course, it feels awesome too. It offers a gentle, air-suction type of stimulation that is so popular right now and has awakened plenty of proud vagina-owners to the wonderful world of sex toys.
There is one additional detail that I would like to point out – this thing is completely waterproof and can be used in a bathtub or a shower. Warm water + privacy + a good glass of pinot noir + the rose toy. Sounds like a good time? Well, it is.
Best Dildo – “Vixen Mustang“
Get this if: you want to try one of the most realistic dildos in the world
There are plenty of virgins out there who want a toy strictly to practice for “the real thing.” For women like this, the Vixen Mustang is easily the best choice out there.
Why? Simply because it is one of the most realistic dildos out there. Everything is done with almost eerie realism in this dildo – everything from how the skin feels to how the head of this dildo moves.
When it comes to size, the story remains the same – at 7.5 inches in length and 5 inches in circumference, it will be just a tad bit larger than an average penis you will come across “in the wild.” This makes it a great choice for practicing anything from giving a BJ to just taking the dildo in and seeing which positions and angles you enjoy the most. It can give you that confidence for the first time.
The first time will not be fireworks anyway, but having some sort of sexual experience will help you be slightly more comfortable in this undoubtedly uncomfortable scenario.
As with all the toys on our list of best sex toys for virgins, pleasure is also a super important aspect. Vixen Mustang does offer this in spades – you see, this hyper-soft skin with the firm inner core and that slight curve…it just works. Even just sliding this thing over my vagina and other erogenous zones feels super nice.
Yes, it is a somewhat costly toy for a dildo, but if realism is one of the key aspects you want in a dildo then this is pretty much as good as it gets.
Best Cheap Toy – “Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Dildo“
Get this if: you want a first sex toy that is dirt cheap yet will serve as a great introduction to the world of erotic toys
I am not the one to make assumptions, but I would have to make an exception here – I assume that a virgin will not want to spend a small fortune on their first sex toy.
As such, I just had to include at least one almost dirt-cheap toy on this list.
At about $20, the Slimline Silicone dildo from Lovehoney is by far the cheapest toy on our list of best sex toys for virgins. Here, we have a small and completely body-safe dildo that is great for exploring your body.
The silicone feels super smooth, nice, and also looks beautiful. Just look at that stark matte black coloring! Yeah, I know – as our long-term readers know, I LOVE a beautiful sex toy.
Lastly – this thing also has a suction cup so feel free to attach it to a wall or a floor if you are feeling particularly feisty.
Now, there is not that much to discuss when it comes to this dildo. Basically, if you want a first sex toy that costs next to nothing yet still offers quality then start here.
Best Panty Vibrator – “Lovense Ferri“
Get this if: you want your first sex toy to be something relatively kinky
The Lovense Ferri is currently the best panty vibrator available. A panty vibrator? Huh? What the hell is that and why would I recommend something like that for virgins?
Well, with the Lovense Ferri, we again have a toy that is super small and discreet yet can manage to deliver amazing levels of pleasure. In addition, the Ferri is a super intuitive toy – even if you have not used a sex toy before, your body will understand exactly how much intensity you want from it and where exactly to wear it for maximum pleasure.
So, the sensations are good, sure, but let’s also explain that panty vibrator bit in some greater detail.
You see, panty vibrators are generally meant for public wear. This is the type of toy that you can wear in your panties without anyone noticing it. It is quiet enough not to be heard in public and the shape of it is also fitting to be worn under clothing.
If you have been paying attention then you know that Lovense toys come with great long-distance connectivity. This is the case for the Lovense Ferri as well. This one can be operated via Bluetooth by a partner. Even if they happen to be thousands of miles away.
Best Rabbit Vibrator – “Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator“
Get this if: you want your first experiences with sex toys to be on the intense side of things
Once again, I am taking a bit of a risky approach here by recommending a rabbit vibe as one of the best sex toys for virgins.
You see, rabbit vibrators are generally considered to be on the intense side when it comes to stimulation. Due to this, some hesitate to recommend these types of toys for beginners.
I am not one of those people. For vagina owners who already have some experience with masturbation/self-exploration, a rabbit vibrator may be a great choice for pushing things even further. Why? Well, rabbits are designed to stimulate the clit and the G-spot at the same time. Sounds like a good time? It is.
Why the Greedy Girl rabbit vibe in particular though? Well, it comes with all the perks you want in a virgin-friendly toy – namely the non-intimidating look, travel lock, impressively quiet motors, nearly endless vibration modes/speeds, and body-hugging design.
The one single gripe I have with this toy is the fact that I wish the battery life was a bit better. That said, this is nitpicking at this point. And, if you want your first toy to be a rabbit then the Greedy Girl is the best entry point there is.
Hopefully, you had fun reading this and got just a little bit excited about trying something new. I am passionate about helping people explore their sexualities so I know that I had loads of fun writing this.
And, once again, I am sure you will have fun too.
With that, I will wrap things up for now – good night and see you for the next one!