Fleshlights are some of the most popular male sex toys ever created. Many penis owners who want to make their first purchase will find their way to this sex toy category.
Now, is it a good first toy? It absolutely is. In my article on whether Fleshlights are worth it or not, I found these toys to be very beginner-friendly and offer great value for money.
Now, there is another question that often gets asked by novices to Fleshlights – do Fleshlights feel like the real thing?
In this article, I will be taking a look at just that – how exactly do Fleshlights feel? I will be comparing the tightness, the depth, and the overall feel of a FL to vaginas and anuses.
We will start things off with a quick overview of what exactly are Fleshlights, what are they made of, and what makes them such a hit sex toy product.
What is a Fleshlight? – A Quick Overview
In a nutshell, Fleshlights are sex toys that are meant to mimic the experience of penetrating the vagina or anus of a woman. The orifices of Fleshlights are made of a patented material called SuperSkin – the key feature of which is softness. For first-timers, it is usually a surprise just how soft and comfortable Fleshlights feel. Feels almost as if your c*ck is landing in clouds.
Now, all of the inner textures of Fleshlights are a bit different. The sleeves are filled with various ridges, nubs, and bumps to enhance the overall experience, but the placement of these details is different in each FL model. As such, collecting Fleshlights, choosing the favorites, and discussing them online is half of the fun of owning a Fleshlight.
Later in this article, I will provide some links to my articles on Fleshlights to give you a starting point on which toys to choose. For now, let’s start with our comparison and take a look at how tight Fleshlights are when compared to the real thing.
The Tightness – Vagina Fleshlights
Admittedly, I am not some kind of Casanova who has experienced thousands of different vaginas, but I have had my fair share of sex.
So, how does the tightness of a vagina compare to that of a FL?
From my experience, most Fleshlights generally feel tighter than average vaginas. FL toys have a sort of suctioning effect and the inner nubs and ridges only add to the overall tight feeling of these toys.
The Tightness – Anal Fleshlights
With anal, my experiences are completely limited. By limited, I mean I have only had anal sex with my wife. Too honest? Probably.
I love anal though, there is something intense and mysterious about it. It is fair play though – in addition to penetrating my wife anally, I also love prostate toys and getting anally stimulated myself. Fair play in this household!
Now, how does the tightness of anal Fleshlights compare to the real thing? In this case, I find the experience to be the carbon copy of the real thing. Anal will always feel somewhat tight and this is also what you get with anal Fleshlights.
With anal FL models, I can safely say that if you ever had anal sex then you kind of know what to expect. Yes, there are some more details in the form of inner ridges, nubs, and bumps that still make getting the Fleshlight relevant even if you have a willing anal partner.
More on these later, but when it comes to pure tightness, the anal Fleshlights feel very, very close to the real thing.
The Depth of Anal and Vagina Fleshlights
Both the anal and vagina Fleshlights are about 9 inches in depth. When you consider that the vaginal canal is about 1.5 to 3.7 inches in length then the Fleshlights are the “winners” here.
This means that Fleshlights are slightly more versatile when it comes to what kind of sexual activities you can enjoy with them. Hit it as deep as you want without worrying that you will go too deep and accidentally hurt anyone.
By the way, it is often the deepest parts of the Fleshlights that are the most stimulating so it is always worth it to go all the way in.
The Overall Feel of Vagina Fleshlights
Generally speaking, Fleshlights are more stimulating than a real vagina. This is due to all the stuff inside Fleshlights. Again, I am talking about those ridges, nubs, and bumps that are found inside them.
The highly stimulating aspect of Fleshlights is also what makes them a great fit for stamina training. If you learn to last while penetrating an intense Fleshlight, then you will have no problem lasting long inside a real woman.
How about the orgasm? All things considered, the orgasm offered by the vagina Fleshlights is pretty comparable to the real thing. Physically speaking, the feeling is just as good.
The Overall Feel of Anal Fleshlights
Again, anal Fleshlights can be considered more stimulating than the real anal experience. When real anal hits you with straightforward tightness then the anal Fleshlights offer varied inner textures.
And again, this makes them a great fit for stamina training.
I have to say one thing though – coming inside an anal Fleshlight is not comparable to offering a legitimate anal creampie. Maybe this is personal, but there is nothing quite like shooting a load into the ass of a woman I love.
So, yeah, anal Fleshlights do feel nice, but the orgasm offered by the real thing is better. At least for me.
Which Fleshlights To Get?
If this article inspired you to get a Fleshlight and this is your first toy then you will undoubtedly need a little guiding hand on where to start. Here are some of my personal recommendations to get you started:
- Cheap Fleshlights – All of the toys in this list cost less than $50. They are not as deep and bulky as full-sized sleeves, but they are a very solid starting point nevertheless.
- Tightest Fleshlights – The most stimulating toys from Fleshlight. Start there if you want to use your Fleshlight for stamina training or just want the most intense experience possible.
- Fleshlight Girls – These are the Fleshlights inspired by the orifices of some of the most famous adult stars on the planet. A very popular series that is also constantly expanding with new models coming out quite often. Some of my personal favorites from this series are the Emily Willis sleeves, the Autumn Falls sleeves, and the Kazumi sleeves.
Fleshlight Versus The Real Thing – The Final Verdict
So, who wins? The Fleshlight or a beautiful orifice of a woman? As I already said, Fleshlights are generally more stimulating than the anuses/vaginas of women.
Still, I would say that “the real thing” will always be the winner, at least for me. There is nothing like enjoying a hot night with someone you are attracted to.
Fleshlights do have their place though. As masturbation toys, they offer great value for money. They are portable, feel awesome, and are super easy to clean. Pretty much everything you would want from a male masturbation toy. It is no wonder that these toys are as popular as they are.